Paul O'Grady

Paul Thomas Francis O'Grady (14 July 1960 – 18 January 2015) was an Australian politician.

He joined the Labor Party in at the age of 15 in 1975, becoming involved within Young Labor.

Having known he was gay from an early age, O'Grady came out to his parents at age 16: It's not something that went down stunningly well at the time, but you know, over the years they've got to accept it or tolerate it or understand it, or whatever, and I've been pretty lucky in the sense to have the family that I have.

Because its not, it's never been a family which has been judgmental, which has said you know 'you can't do this'.

It's been a family that says 'well that's your decision'.

O'Grady also worked as a party research officer for the NSW Treasurer, Ken Booth, from 1981 until 1988.

O'Grady soon joined the moderate 'Soft' Left faction of the party and won a ballot for the Assistant Secretary of Australian Young Labor 1984, but failed to gain enough support to run as President of NSW Young Labor.

He was a Labor member of the New South Wales Legislative Council from 1988 to 1996 and was the first openly gay member of the New South Wales Parliament.

O'Grady was born in Ryde in Northern Sydney, and worked as a shop assistant and a union organiser for the shop assistants section within the Australian Workers' Union.

He was elected as a Labor member of the Legislative Council in 1988.

Making his maiden speech to the council during a debate on the Summary Offences Bill on 2 June 1988, O'Grady spoke out against excess of NSW Police Force powers and for the decriminalisation of prostitution while also thanking his primary supporters and inspirations in the Labor movement: "I owe a great deal to the faith and trust that people such as former Deputy Premier Jack Ferguson, Delcia Kite and John Faulkner placed in me during the years that I have been active in the Labor Party. I thank also the person for whom I worked for seven years–Ken Booth. He really is one of the most genuine, decent and humane human beings I have ever met."

Although O'Grady was gay, he did not openly declare it until 1990, several years after his election, thus becoming the first openly gay member of the New South Wales Parliament.

In June 1990 O'Grady gave an interview with the Sydney Star Observer, which served as a catalyst for his public outing, and which was then followed by a television interview with Jana Wendt on the Nine Network.

This interview was the catalyst for a media avalanche that surprised even him.

Some of his conservative upper house colleagues were less than enthused, with the ALP President of the Legislative Council Johno Johnson commenting "Of course, homosexuality is unnatural, but at least there is no second generation of homosexuals is there?", and in response O'Grady noted that most politicians were more socially conservative than the people who elected them: "there is no doubt I have experience more discrimination in Parliament House than anywhere else. Unlike politicians, who are driven by opinion polls, I think the electorate is reasonably tolerant, and recognises that there are all sorts of different views. I do not think voters are worried about the sexual preferences of politicians. What they are looking for is integrity in their politicians".

O'Grady went on to champion the gay and lesbian community in parliament, inviting all MPs to join him in marching in the 1992 Mardi Gras.

The multi-party delegation included Elisabeth Kirkby, Clover Moore, Ernie Page, Jan Burnswoods, Meredith Burgmann and Jeff Shaw, who would later back up his support with some key reforms as attorney-general including the review of discrimination in law and the 'Gay panic' legal defence.

In July 1992, O'Grady led a day of protest against Defence Minister Robert Ray's decision to reinforce the Australian Defence Force's ban on LGBT personnel, declaring that "We should not have to be fighting in 1992 on this issue".

O'Grady presented a submission to the subsequent Labor Caucus Committee on the possibility of overturning the ban and in September the committee recommended it be overturned.

In November 1992 the ban was abolished by the Keating Government.

In 1992 O'Grady made headlines by demanding that his boyfriend, Murray Ward, a university lecturer, be extended the same travel and other benefits as other parliamentarians' heterosexual partners, a request that he continued to ask for the next three years.

In 1993 O'Grady revealed to the Sydney Star Observer that 000 Emergency phone operators had refused him assistance when he and Ward were attacked by a gang on William Street, asking him three times if it was a life-threatening situation before hanging up: "My life was not in danger but my point is this – any citizen has a right to report crime or potential crime and if the police are serious about combating street violence against gays and lesbians then they have to intervene before someone is bashed."

However, in May 1994 Murray Ward died and it was revealed that O'Grady had found his 26-year-old partner dead from an accidental heroin overdose in his Paddington flat.

O'Grady initially considered running for preselection as the Labor candidate in the Legislative Assembly seat of Bligh against independent MP Clover Moore, for the March 1995 state election.

However he later withdrew in favour of former Sydney Gay and Lesbian Mardi Gras president, Susan Harben, who was nevertheless defeated by Moore at the election.

On 30 May 1995 O'Grady was given leave by the Labor Party to introduce a private member's bill into the council to provide for 'regulation to protect medical practitioners who assist the terminally ill to end their lives', which would make such a bill the first time a bill concerning euthanasia would be considered by the Parliament.

He had not done so, however, at the time of his resignation.

Although elected for a second eight-year term at the March 1995 state election, O'Grady resigned due to health concerns on 3 January 1996 and the vacancy he created was filled by Peter Primrose.

Six months after his resignation from parliament in July 1996, after various circulating rumours, O'Grady announced on television that he had AIDS.

He made his announcement on the current affairs programme "Witness", hosted by Jana Wendt, stating: "I’m 35. I resigned from parliament in January. My parliamentary career is behind me. I have AIDS. It is progressing. I will fight on. Mind over matter."

He also noted that despite concerns over the personal nature of his admission, he made it as "the discrimination against HIV is something which needs to be dealt with out there in the public arena".

His admission was met with overwhelming support including the Labor Premier Bob Carr, who said: "Having a politician say, 'This is my life, HIV and Aids', is a reminder to everyone that a lot more of this is going to happen in our society."

For his part, O'Grady noted that he thought more about his partner, Murray Ward, than his diagnosis: "I get more maudlin about Murray than I do about me. It crippled me. And in a sense I have probably missed him more in the past six months, because we did have plans post-parliament, and he's not around to participate".

A few years later, with health significantly improved, O'Grady returned to work as a staffer for the ALP, including as Chief of Staff to the Minister for Tourism and Sport and Recreation in the Carr and Iemma governments, Sandra Nori from 2003 to 2007.

While Chief of Staff, O'Grady became involved in the controversy surrounding cabinet minister Milton Orkopoulos and his being charged for underage sexual offences.

It was claimed in November 2006 by Nationals MP, Adrian Piccoli that O'Grady had tipped him off about Orkopoulos' behaviour several months before he was formally charged by police, which O'Grady denied.

He did admit, however, that he had learned in August 2006 that Orkopoulos was under investigation from his former electorate officer, Gillian Sneddon, who wanted his advice.

O'Grady then arranged a meeting with David Tierney, a friend of Premier Iemma, to indirectly inform the Premier's office of the investigations.

This did not happen and Iemma regarded the case against Orkopoulos as 'rumour and innuendo' up until his formal charging on 8 November, leading to criticism arising from the allegation that Iemma had left a minister in his cabinet knowing he was under investigation for such serious offences.

In 2011, O'Grady was diagnosed with cancer and underwent preliminary treatment.