Lillian Faderman

In 1914, her mother emigrated from a shtetl in Latvia to New York City, planning eventually to send for the rest of the family.

Her aunt Rae came in 1923, but the rest of the family was killed during Hitler's extermination of European Jews, and Mary blamed herself for not being able to rescue them.

Her guilt contributed to a serious mental illness that would profoundly affect her daughter.

Mary and Rae, Faderman's mother and aunt, worked in the garment industry for very little money.

Lillian was her mother's third pregnancy; her mother (unmarried) aborted the first two pregnancies at Lillian's biological father's request, but insisted on bearing and raising the third.

Lillian Faderman (born July 18, 1940) is an American historian whose books on lesbian history and LGBT history have earned critical praise and awards.

The New York Times named three of her books on its "Notable Books of the Year" list.

In addition, The Guardian named her book, Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers, one of the Top 10 Books of Radical History.

She was a professor of English at California State University, Fresno (Fresno State), which bestowed her emeritus status, and a visiting professor at University of California, Los Angeles (UCLA).

Faderman came out as lesbian in the 1950s.

She lives with her partner, Phyllis Irwin.

She and Phyllis raised one son, Avrom, conceived through artificial insemination by an anonymous Jewish donor.

Mary married when Lillian was a teenager and died in 1979, continuing to have a profound influence on her daughter's life.

Using pseudonyms such as Gigi Frost, Faderman did nude modeling and made softcore nude film loops which paid for her education.

She gave her experience in the softcore porn industry in her memoir book Naked in the Promised Land.

Faderman studied first at the University of California, Berkeley and later at UCLA.

Her family moved with her to Los Angeles where, with her mother's encouragement, Lillian took acting classes.

She began modeling as a teenager, discovered the gay bar scene, and eventually met her first girlfriend.

Before she graduated from Hollywood High School, she married a gay man much older than herself—a marriage that lasted less than a year.

She retired from academe in 2007.

Faderman has been referred to as "the mother of lesbian history" for her groundbreaking research and writings on lesbian culture, literature, and history.

Faderman was raised by her mother, Mary, and her aunt, Rae.