John Ortberg

John Ortberg Jr. (born May 5, 1957) is an American evangelical Christian author, speaker, and the former senior pastor of Menlo Church in Menlo Park, California, an ECO Presbyterian church with more than 4,000 members.

From 1985 to 1990, he served as senior pastor at Simi Valley Community Church, and then from 1990 to 1994 at Horizons Community Church (now Baseline Community Church) in Claremont, California.

Ortberg then moved from California to Illinois to serve as a teaching pastor at Willow Creek Community Church in South Barrington, Illinois until 2003, when he became the senior pastor at Menlo Park Presbyterian Church, a multi-campus church in Northern California.

Ortberg's wife, Nancy, has also served as a pastor.

They have three children: Laura, Daniel, and John III.

Laura has written for The New York Times, New York Magazine, and BuzzFeed.

Ortberg has published many books including the 2008 ECPA Christian Book Award winner When the Game is Over, It All Goes Back in the Box, and the 2002 Christianity Today Book Award winner If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat.

Another of his publications, The Life You've Always Wanted, has sold more than 500,000 copies as of 2008.

Ortberg's retelling of his experience of playing Monopoly with his grandmother was used as the beginning narration of Peter Joseph's 2011 documentary Zeitgeist: Moving Forward.

Ortberg has been a featured speaker at many events, including:

On August 13, 2012, Ortberg's book Who Is This Man? debuted at #3 on the New Release chart at Amazon.com.

Daniel M. Lavery is the founder, writer and editor of the now-defunct feminist humor blog The Toast and was the author of the "Dear Prudence" advice column for the Slate online magazine from November 2015 until May 2021.

In the summer of 2018, Ortberg's son, John III, confessed to him that he was sexually attracted to minors.

At that time, Ortberg did nothing to ensure that his son stopped his volunteer activities with minors at Menlo Church.

Ortberg also did not alert other church leaders to the situation.

The allegations had arisen in late 2019, initially without identifying Ortberg's son as the volunteer in question.

Ortberg was born in Rockford, Illinois.

He earned his undergraduate degree from Wheaton College, and his M.Div. and Ph.D. in clinical psychology from Fuller Theological Seminary.

Ortberg has also studied at the University of Aberdeen, Scotland.

Their youngest, John III, known as Johnny, was an Ultimate Frisbee coach until late 2019.

A central theme of Ortberg's teaching and books is spiritual formation, the transforming of human character through authentic experiences with God.

Ortberg argues that the desire for comfort and security often stands in the way of an authentic relationship with God – when people place too high a value on being secure and comfortable they may be reluctant to make the sacrifices God asks of them.

Ortberg has warned against the societal pressures which tell people that bigger is always better, saying, "I think for all of us, whatever your ministry or job, bigness will never satisfy the call."

In his books, Ortberg has described his own desire for importance and success, and how achieving them did not ultimately bring him happiness.

"Your cravings," according to Ortberg, "if you could get to the bottom of them, are for the eternal."

Ortberg's other son, Daniel Lavery, posted on Twitter in 2020 that a member of his father's church had disclosed his 'obsessive sexual feelings about young children' to Lavery on November 15, 2019.

Upon discovering that his father had not shared this information with Menlo Church Leadership or the Elder Board, Lavery went to the church's leadership himself.

On November 22, 2019, Ortberg went on leave from his position.

The reason for his leave was not stated at that time.

Ortberg resigned from his position as pastor of Menlo Church in Summer 2020 after it was revealed that he had allowed one of his sons, John Ortberg III, to continue volunteering in working with minors at the church after the son had disclosed having experienced unwanted thoughts of attraction to minors.

On January 21, 2020, Menlo Church issued a statement indicating the reason Ortberg was placed on leave: he had allowed a church volunteer (John III was not named in that statement) to work with children, despite that volunteer's confession of a lifelong sexual attraction to children.

Ortberg was reinstated after an investigation found no evidence of wrongdoing.

On January 24, 2020, Ortberg returned from leave.

He has stated that he "failed to do the right thing" and apologized for his "lack of transparency".

After completing a restoration plan, Ortberg returned to the pulpit on March 7, 2020.

Lavery alleged that this investigation was inadequate, because the lawyer who conducted it had no experience with matters of sexual misconduct, but rather was a specialist in protecting clients from litigation.

On July 29, 2020, Menlo Church announced that Ortberg had resigned from his position, effective August 2, 2020, citing broken trust and fallout from the “poor judgement” in decisions he had made in allowing his son to continue to volunteer with students after his confession of an attraction to minors.

In October 2021, the third-party organization Zero Abuse Project completed an investigation into the matter after interviewing 104 witnesses and reviewing or analyzing more than 500,000 documents.

Zero Abuse Project did not find any disclosure or other evidence that Ortberg III committed any acts of wrongdoing against a minor.