Erin Pizzey

Erin Patria Margaret Pizzey (born 19 February 1939) is a British ex-feminist, Men's rights activist and advocate against domestic violence, and novelist.

She was born Erin Carney in Qingdao, China in 1939, along with her twin sister Rosaleen.

Her father was a British diplomat and one of 17 children from a poor Irish family.

In 1942, the family moved to Shanghai; shortly thereafter, they were captured by the invading Japanese Army and exchanged for Japanese prisoners of war.

She is the sister of writer Daniel Carney, who settled in Rhodesia and is known for his novel The Wild Geese.

Pizzey moved with her family to Kokstad in South Africa, then at the age of five, to Beirut.

At the end of the war the family went to Toronto.

They moved to Tehran and finally settled in England in 1948.

Pizzey attended St Antony's junior school and then Leweston School at age 11, gaining four O-levels.

Her parents were posted to Africa where she attended Dakar University, studying French and English.

In 1959, Pizzey attended her first meeting at the UK's Liberation Movement (WLM) at the Chiswick house of a local organiser, Artemis At Artemis' urging, Pizzey agreed to convene a 'consciousness-raising group' at her home in Goldhawk Road.

This collective became the Goldhawk Road Group.

The head office of the Women's Liberation Workshop (a women's workshop within the WLM) was in Little Newport Street, in Chinatown, Covent Garden, straddling the City of Westminster and Borough of Camden.

Along with her friend, Alison, and other members of the Goldhawk Road Group, Pizzey found herself at odds with Artemis and Gladiator, who led a clique of younger women within the WLM Workshop head office.

Pizzey distanced herself from this clique when she witnessed what she described as "irregular and disrespectful behaviour" towards the money donated by desperate women across the UK.

She confronted them over this behaviour, which, according to her, included claiming that telephones were tapped, and labelling of people they did not like as MI5, police and CIA informers or agents.

She also was concerned about overhearing discussion of plans to bomb the London store Biba; she reported on this to the police after warning the people involved.

Subsequently, Pizzey became aware that the police had the group and offices under surveillance.

Pizzey says that she and her fellow members of the Goldhawk Road group were seen as troublesome, because they did not accept others' behaviors and views.

She is known for having started the first and currently the largest domestic violence shelter in the modern world, Refuge, then known as Chiswick Women's Aid, in 1971.

Pizzey says that she has been the subject of death threats and boycotts because her experience and research into the issue led her to conclude that most domestic violence is reciprocal, and that women are as capable of violence as men.

These threats eventually led to her exile from the UK.

Pizzey has said that the threats were from militant feminists.

She has also stated that she is banned from the refuge she started.

Pizzey set up a women's refuge in Belmont Terrace, Chiswick, London in 1971.

She later opened a number of additional shelters, despite hostility from the authorities.

She gained notoriety and publicity for setting up refuges by squatting, most notably in 1975 at the Palm Court Hotel in Richmond.

Pizzey's work was widely praised at the time.

In 1975, MP Jack Ashley stated in the House of Commons that "The work of Mrs. Pizzey was pioneering work of the first order. It was she who first identified the problem, who first recognised the seriousness of the situation and who first did something practical by establishing the Chiswick aid centre. As a result of that magnificent pioneering work, the whole nation has now come to appreciate the significance of the problem".

Whilst being prosecuted by local authorities and appealing matters to the House of Lords, she was recognised for her work.

After Pizzey left Chiswick Women's Aid (renamed Chiswick Family Rescue on March 31, 1979), the organisation she had founded and moved abroad, it was rebranded as the charity Refuge on March 5, 1993.

Although Refuge traces its existence back to Chiswick Women's Aid, Pizzey's name could not be found anywhere on the Refuge website for many decades.

It was not until November 2, 2020 that Sandra Horley, the chief executive of Refuge since 1983, mentioned Pizzey's name for the first time again on the Refuge website in a press release on her retirement.

Soon after establishing her first refuge, Pizzey asserted that much of the domestic violence was reciprocal.

She reached this conclusion when she asked the women in her refuge about their violence, only to discover most of them were equally violent or more violent than their husbands.

In her study "Comparative Study of Battered Women And Violence-Prone Women," (co-researched with John Gayford of Warlingham Hospital), Pizzey distinguished between 'genuine battered women' and 'violence-prone women'; the former defined as "the unwilling and innocent victim of his or her partner's violence" and the latter defined as "the unwilling victim of his or her own violence."

This study reported that 62% of the sample population were more accurately described as "violence prone."

Similar findings regarding the mutuality of domestic violence have been confirmed in subsequent studies.

In her book Prone to Violence, Pizzey expressed concern that so little attention was paid to the causes of interpersonal and family violence, stating, "to my amazement, nobody seemed to genuinely want to find out why violent people treat each other the way they do".

She also expressed concern for the view expressed by government officials that solutions to the issue of domestic abuse and violence could be found in socialist or communist countries.